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How to be sure that your man doesn't love you anymore

Tired of being blamed?

Since the beginning of time, women tend to fall into a role of both nurturing and caring when they fall in love. It is natural for us to try to take care of our partner, to love them, to help them. The problem begins when we are willing to help them at our own expense. As they begin to treat us worse, we fight harder to save them, while tolerating mistreatment. We believe that if we just give them the love that they need, that they will get better and love us in return. Sadly, it doesn't work this way. Usually, when a man gets to a point where he treats us badly, it won't change, it only gets worse. Not sure? See how many of these apply to you:

1. Step 1

   Love shouldn't hurt. If your man constantly hurts you, degrades you, belittles you, makes you cry- that is NOT love. I'll say it again: That is NOT love. That's just cruel. Ask yourself- how many times has your man made you cry in the last month? In the last week? Do not make excuses for this behavior, because there really aren't any. We have all hurt someone's feelings at some point in our lives, but we tend to not CONTINUE the offending behavior, we do not continue hurting the person, because when we care about someone, we don't want to hurt them! If he continues to hurt you, he doesn't care enough about you to not hurt you. Remember that!

2. Step 2

   If he hits you, gets physical with you, or has ever hurt you, he does not love you. While society has changed somewhat regarding what is permissible behavior, there are still laws against domestic violence for a reason. A man that hits you or hurts you does not love you, plain and simple. He may love the fact that he has someone available to take his anger out on, but don't mistake that for love, because it isn't. It's not even close.

3. Step 3

   If your man lies to you, he does not love you. We have all told lies before, and while even small lies are not good, there is a world of difference between telling a lie and a pattern of constant dishonesty. A man that lies to you will never stop lying; it's a habit that won't go away, until you make him go away. You deserve full disclosure and honesty in your relationship.

4. Step 4

   If he breaks promises, he does not love you. A man is only as good as his word, and if his word is no good, neither is he. Men that continually break promises are simply baiting you (telling you what you want to hear) so that you stick around, and plan to do what they want to do. Broken promises often lead to broken hearts, which often lead to broken relationships.

5. Step 5

   The final way to tell if your man doesn't love you is to ask yourself. Do you feel loved? Do you feel like your man cares for you, and makes you happy? Do you feel fulfilled and adored? If you don't feel it, it probably isn't there. To further complicate this, we are often blamed for his deficiencies. They tend to blame us for "making him mad" or "starting it". Don't accept the blame any longer. If your man doesn't show you that he loves you, he doesn't. You deserve happiness, and lots of it. Don't settle for anything less.

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